• A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    because a lot of us have learned that, while we have to be there for everyone and everything, no one will ever be there for us no matter what.

    So we endure and improvise.

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      3 months ago

      Sometime in my late 20s early 30s, I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma. I’ve been working to trust people more, but it’s tough.