Hi Vivian!! I’m Vanessa :) love a good V name lol

Sounds about like my experience

It’s something to do with improving the reasoning capabilities, because there are more patterns in the weights that it can activate against

You’re so pretty omg!?

Supposedly that makes them dumber in general

As the mom of an 11yo who pulled an uno reverse moment when I came out to them, I think even just being willing to be supportive is more than a lot of kids will get. I came out to mine as trans 2 years ago and they were like “oh, um. I’ve been thinking about how to tell you I think I’m nonbinary.” They were worried we’d think they were just wanting attention, poor thing.

My suggestion: ask what terms they feel the most at home with, don’t just assume anything stays the same unless they explicitly say they want it to. For example: “How would you like us to refer to you? “Child”? “Kiddo”? “Son/daughter” still apply?”

And then ask things like (if afab) “Do you want to be ‘one of the girls’ or ‘one of the boys’ if gender split stuff comes up at a party or hangout?” And "If I’m calling for you and your friends - what should I be calling out? “Boys”? “Girls”? “Kids”?

Note: we ask these things not because we want to force them into one, but because we want to help them feel comfortable knowing the answers in low-pressure situations so that they are never put on the spot about it.

Ask about wardrobe, hairstyles, other details of presentation, and importantly: let them try out and enjoy stuff. Or hate stuff. Ours got a should length side-shave haircut and they love it, but you’ve got to be willing to let them experiment or they’ll never get a chance to figure themselves out.

With your bridging to discord, do you have dm capabilities? Able to join servers you don’t control? Because I’m nervous about the idea of getting banned for puppeting since I have multiple big servers I’m in charge of

I love it when women

Yeah, but if you want privacy, it’s a fine idea to prevent public networks and such from examining your traffic patterns. My personal main use case for a self-hosted VPN is for using public networks for private traffic, and I wouldn’t suggest doing hardcore high volume piracy through such a thing.

The idea of using one for piracy is more focused on finding a VPS provider that can accept cryptocurrency and doesn’t require your personal details.

Edit: whoops, realized I got the premises backwards in my earlier comment. Sorry about that.

Host one yourself on a cloud host that accepts cryptocurrency and asks no questions, if you want to do piracy. Otherwise if you’re just trying to get your traffic cloaked for privacy reasons, a digital ocean droplet or a hetzner instance running OpenVPN is plenty.

I love Bad Omens. So fun to sing to around the house while I do chores.

I’m sorry, Skye. That sounds horrible and I hope you get out asap. My parents simply refused to continue talking to me, which is fine since I moved out some 13 years ago at 18 (I’m 31).

It sounds like she has some attachment issues. Which sucks for you, and I wish it were better.

Your tattoo! Your outfit! Your … Gestures generally at you!

Adorable!

I think that’s a Voyager thing, maybe?

Look at you! Whoa!

I’ve found that I swing wildly between “cuddly horny” where I want to be a gentle top to my spouse, to have slow gentle sex … And one brain cell in the back of my brain going “TOP ME TOP ME TOP ME TOP ME TOP ME TOP ME”

And yeah, in both cases it’s a very social feeling. It’s no longer “thinking with the wrong head”, where I feel like I’m being pulled around at the whims of my libido; Instead it’s like something in my brain is yearning for the touch of another.

I essentially have found that all flavors are more vibrant, more intense.

Sweet is sweeter, bitter is more bitter, salty is saltier … Flavors are just more.

I agree with the other comments about a belt of some kind! Looking great in it though for sure

The main trouble with Stoat and Fluxer from what I’ve seen is that they’re both trying too hard to be Discord, while neither of them are quite hitting the mark. They’ll be interesting to follow in the future

You’ve reminded me that i should pick up some sundresses