• 1 Post
  • 88 Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: June 9th, 2025

help-circle











  • it means don’t fucking worry about it

    unironically, just dont

    it’s not that big of a deal, some people are just non binary lesbians and we don’t need to fuckin care

    NB carries its own gender info, lesbian carries its own info on cultural, romantic, and sexual info. it’s fine and it fits. Being NB isnt a rule and ppl need to not worry so much about getting enby pronouns wrong or figuring out what’s inside the panties they’ll never be peelin.

    it doesnt fuckin matter, it’s the gender of not giving a fuck. enby literally stands for “don’t worry about it buddy”


  • TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comtomemes@lemmy.worldBe Goonin'
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    23
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    it’s complicated. there’s a refractory period, of course, but there can also be an impact on the greater libido over time. testosterone cycles at i think 24 hrs in men, and it can build up over several days. so he might get less hard, or stay hard for less time, if it’s frequently been used lately.

    and believe it or not, focusing on cumming really quickly while masturbating can make you cum faster with a partner too. think about it like psychologically conditioning yourself. that will vary with how he prefers to masturbate though. so edging might not be the worst practice in that list. but i guess chaffing is also a factor then. it’s complicated!


  • starting an anti-depressant has helped me a lot with that. it’s a feared side effect but sexual preoccupation can also be really exhausting. now I still enjoy it but it doesn’t have to be as often; the desire factor still strong but not overwhelming. and the sensation is totally the same - just takes longer for the gun to fire, and it’s less urgent to do so all the time.






  • seppo refers to Americans, as in the ones who are typically whitewashing the genocide away from japanese history. you know, the people who sided with the nazis.

    but apparently remembering who the nazis allies were is racist, cool, yea, you make sense.

    look up what happened in Nanjing. or the Korean comfort women. or what the Japanese empire did to the Philippines. or, the list goes on and on

    but no, people raised in a country founded on genocide never learn about that, all they see is funny sexy cartoon. at best you fuckers culturally appropriate Japanese culture and fetishize it. it’s disgusting how you people consume their culture. and they literally write books about how they’re feeding you culture to correct their name and take power back. and you eat this shit up. fuck you anime fetishists