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  • I grew up, and live in a tourist destination. My highschool was trash. Tourists are a nuisance. We have a few big events in town yearly that bring an insane amount of people here and most locals just hide in their house for a week at a time. I would leave but it has the only weather I like. I make really good money(well over 100k) in a non tourist job and can’t afford to buy here.



  • As a cis male who never experienced dysphoria I can’t relate to your feelings. Exploring who you are is a great choice. You are 14 you don’t need to make any concrete decisions about who you are. You might not be what your agab was and you might not truly identify as a female but from my limited understanding it’s a spectrum so don’t decide who you are find it out. Best of luck, I hope you have great people to surround you at home, If you don’t find your people and leave the baggage behind.






  • Zannsolo@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldWhy dating is hard
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    1 year ago

    Most people’s problems are shit profiles and bad swiping.

    Find/take good photos. I used photofeeler to test my photos and it helped.

    Have a decent short bio that has something the girl can bring up. Mine was my hatred of mayo, almost all my matches brought it up as a discussion point. On Bumble it was most often the ice breaker.

    Don’t swipe right on the 8/9/10s that you have zero chance at. If a girl out of your range has a profile that describes you sure swipe right otherwise don’t swipe on girls you have zero shot with. It messes your algorithm up. If you want to fantasize about hot chicks look at porn otherwise be honest about what you bring to the table and swipe in your realistic range. If you’re a 3 a 5 should be your 10.

    Advice from a decent looking (but def not hot) slightly overweight at times person, who got my fair share of dates, some hookups, and some girlfriends from online dating in a smallish dating pool.

    Met my wife randomly through a coworker 🤷‍♂️.