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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • Maytag Commercial or SpeedQueen for washers. I’ve had zero issues with my Maytag in the 5ish years I’ve had it.

    Dryers have way fewer failure points, so anything simple should be fine. You want knobs and physical buttons, for both washers and dryers the electronic components are the first thing to go and they’re expensive to replace.






  • He had a choice to either hear that she was experience pain/duress or that she’s exaggerating and/or misunderstanding.

    And she had a chance to communicate her frustrations without making an ultimatum.

    That he immediately dismissed her and only talked of himself makes it clear that he’s an uncaring narcissist.

    That she immediately issued an ultimatum instead of trying to open a productive dialogue about it more strongly suggests that she’s the uncaring narcissist. Ultimatums aren’t healthy.




  • agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.workstomemes@lemmy.worldMy bad bro
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    1 month ago

    Ask them out. If it costs you everything it was never going to be something.

    I wouldn’t say never. Attraction potential can change drastically over time. Maybe it would cost you everything today, but not after a year of self-improvement: diet, exercise, hobbies, hygiene, etc.

    Hell, even time by itself might be enough to shift the other person’s values. Maybe today they just want to party and have casual sex with hot strangers, but in a year or two they might want a serious relationship with someone they trust.

    All big “maybes”, but to ignore them is a bit reductionist. People are complicated.


  • I mean, it unlocked big ideas earlier than most people, and I got a head start on serious critical thinking, which has shaped my life in many positive ways. But it didn’t, like, directly lead to financial prosperity. Honestly it probably hampered it because I had too much context to exploit others with a clear conscience way before I had the means to do so at scale.

    “Reading level” is more about literary comprehension than technical understanding. And embracing baser modes of expression has only made it easier to effectively communicate.

    Above-average reading level is only really helpful long-term if you specialize in literature.