🐝bownage [they/he]

✨ 👋 Dutch queer person (they/he) | I like taking to people online

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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • Yes yes yes preach it!!

    Don’t forget OP, your friends can be wrong (even if they mean well) and NO one can tell you who you are or what your gender is except for yourself. How you feel inside is valid. If you don’t quite know for sure how you feel yet, that’s also valid. And who knows, they’ll probably come around to the idea of you being nonbinary once you grow more confident in your gender and radiate it into the world in an undeniable fashion 💜💛🤍🖤🩵🤍🩷



  • What’s driving them? My educated guess would be your usual blend of misinformation, xenophobia and egotism / fear of losing what they perceive (and are told, by like minds) to be their birthright.

    Symptoms include but are not limited to:

    • othering minorities
    • racism
    • fear of trans people
    • telling n-th generation Dutch people who happen to be not white to ‘go back to their own country’ (an all time favourite)
    • fear of refugees (only when they’re brown of course, no problem accepting Ukrainian refugees)
    • violent protests against local govt when they announce a new refugee center
    • nationalism
    • misplaced nostalgia for when we were a ‘proper’ country (think white)

    Probably forgot some but you get the idea. Then there’s also some flavours that are just straight up fascism like Forum voor Democratie.

    Recent low point includes above party initiating a motion to mark antifa as a terrorist organisation (they wish they were trump so bad) and it being passed in parliament by a majority (all the right wing parties summed) because no one bothered to think about it for even 2 seconds.