As someone who is some of those things as well, I would love to know what the wife and/or child are doing during all those activities. Because something has to give when you’re doing that much.
In my experience, that balance is really hard, and even in the most hospitable, high-quality-of-life places, that balance is not exactly always something that is nurtured and valued by the systems in place.




Seriously what is this timeline we are living in. What are these fellow humans doing? What is happening in the world??? That could be my child. That could have been you and your father in some alternative timeline.
Fuck this. FUCK