• hakase@lemmy.zip
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    3 months ago

    For anyone interested, the original comment was:

    “I’ve got enough of the comments that you did make to judge you on the ones you don’t.”

    and I edited it for style and readability.

    I edit my comments like this all the time and will continue to do so as long as it doesn’t change the general meaning/intent. I’m sorry you don’t like it, but then again, I don’t like all of the misandry in your comments and would much rather you edit it out after the fact, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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      3 months ago

      Misandry does not exist the same way misogyny does.

      I won’t be editing this one either.

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        Misogyny being objectively worse than misandry in a wide variety of ways does not excuse you from adding to the misandry that does exist, in this case demonizing OP for a title that clearly wasn’t misogynist and which could easily have been based on their lived experience.

        We should be lifting each other up, not fighting about who is dragging each other down harder.

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            The whole “I’m just innocently asking questions” schtick clearly isn’t working in this thread. You’ll get 'em next time though (as long as you post in womensstuff where nobody will call you out on it, of course!)

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                Your comments are a very finely polished lens that lends itself well to accurate and detailed projection.

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                  Mhm sure. A person’s social media is a perfect representation of them and you know exactly how I’ll respond to any situation now.

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                    Please prove me wrong. I mean that sincerely. Please establish such a consistent record of not demonizing men in your comments that I no longer feel as though I can confidently ascribe malice to them.

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          Idk man it seemed kind of misogynist to me. If you make a general unqualified statement based on your lived experience, you are (ambiguously) applying that experience to others based only on their immutable qualities. At least, that would not be an uncommon nor entirely unfounded reading of the statement’s intent.

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              It’s a good question.

              In what way is calling out perceived misogyny considered misandry?

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                My answer is the same: in exactly the same way that calling out perceived misandry can be considered misogyny.

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              You have avoided engaging meaningfully with any of my comments and have interpreted them with so many preconceived layers of this conversation that I legitimately do not know what point you are trying to make here.