I feel like I started too late. There’s no hope for me of ever passing… I’m so freaking dysphoric

  • McUberStein@lemmy.zipOP
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    2 months ago

    I swear this isn’t a troll. I truly do have severe confidence issues along with terrible anxiety.

    This is honestly just a good-ish photo and I’m definitely not passing. I still boymode in public for that reason.

    It’s really hard to get out of my head. My bf keeps complimenting me, so do my friends, but it’s way too easy to dismiss them. I’m sorry this post seemed like a troll.

    I will need FFS for my profile: mainly my forehead. However, reading all of these comments, I’m getting slightly more hopeful. Thank you, kind stranger 🩷

    • isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 months ago

      Do you actually know if you pass or not? Have you tried girl moding? It might surprise you if you haven’t.

      And sorry, I didn’t mean to accuse you of anything. I definitely get the confidence issues. I’ve dealt with them myself.

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      2 months ago

      You look like a girl to me. My husband’s cousins both have a body profile similar to yours, so I can say with confidence you have a fem bod.

      Maybe if you’re getting tagged as a boy still, it’s your voice? Speech classes might help.