I saw this and was thinking the same thing, I doubt op would be treated differently for wearing them out. If a dude came into the shop wearing earrings like this I might notice and if I did I would not care and immediately forget when they leave my sight, just another customer/passerby. I imagine most people are the same.

Good to know. I was thinking of donating but I’ll give to the internet archive instead.

Thanks. The better we understand ourselves, the more we can improve.

Sounds like that’s something worth making known after knowing someone for a while

That sounds great, but I imagine saying that being quite awkward.

Not your fault, I didn’t make a good title. You’re on the nose. I just need to be nice, friendly, relaxed like you said. I suppose I’m asking a group of bisexuals a general question hoping for something that’ll be especially resonant with me. I guess there’s also a balancing act of being subtle but letting that part of myself slow when talking to dudes.

For music soul seek for whatever on Spotify doubledouble dot top

Soul seek to download files (works all the time) and musicbrains Picard to edit metadata en made (works most of the time, some manual editing will be necessary).

As for listening, I use musicbee on pc. It looks and feels like the itunes pc application used to. If I’m out and about, I have a usb stick with music plugged into my car console and a micro sd card with music in my psp.

This is what works for me and may not be ideal for you. Let me know what works :)